Back to School Tips for All Ages

At the end of July it’s time to talk about Back to School tips. Plans are made for purchasing back to school supplies and back to school clothes. Preparation for boing back to school will happen in the months of August and September, also. Summer is ending. Cooler weather and fall foliage are taking shape in the month of September. Millions of school children are excited about returning to school and getting to work. Preparation for Kindergartners, on up to High School seniors, is a must.

Here are some back to school tips that will help with the transition from summer fun to getting serious about school work in preparation for securing your child’s future:

Children in Kindergarten - 5th grade

1. About a week before school starts, have your children go to bed at the time they will when school begins.  Set their alarm or wake them up early.  It is difficult for some kids to adjust to going to bed and getting up earlier after having an entire summer of sleeping in or staying up late.  Many young children need to be on a schedule and preparing a week or so earlier will pay off.

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2. If you have a school supply list given to you by your school district or your school’s principal, buy the supplies early. This is a good way to begin the school year off on the right foot.  Label everything and get the backpacks ready the night before school starts.  Buy some extra supplies to keep at home if your child is one to lose or forget their pencils or markers at school.  They will probably need some basic supplies for homework time.  Nothing is more frustrating than sitting down to do homework and discovering the basics are missing.

3. If you have a Kindergartner, walk or drive to school, or if they are taking the bus go ahead and ride the City bus two or three days before school starts.  This helps acquaint them with what they will actually be doing that first back to school day and it can work wonders for alleviating the first-day jitters.  If your child is especially anxious, ask if you can let them visit their new classroom for five or ten minutes the day before school starts.  Many principals will let the Kindergartners come to the campus before school starts.

Middle School

1. Many sixth graders will be attending a new school in their middle school years.  Middle Schools usually are much larger than the elementary school and that can be a little intimidating.  Of course pre-teens may not admit they are nervous, but most parents are.  Suggest a bike ride over to the school sometime during August just to look around.  Many middle schools conduct orientation anyway a couple of days before school actually begins, but an extra trip without all of their peers might be worthwhile.   

2. Just as in elementary school, it is important, if not more so in middle school, to have all the school supplies ready, especially an organizer.  Some schools make it mandatory for the students to purchase an organizer directly from the school. Get in the habit from day one of checking it and being sure homework assignments are recorded.  Visit the school's website and see if homework and grades will be posted on the site.  This is an excellent way to stay involved with your child’s progress when they are going back to school and throughout the year.

3. If your student struggles with the basics, math or language arts, consider hiring a tutor for some review sessions before and during the first semester. Also, it is quite common in middle school for students who are excelling to be moved to Honors classes sometime during the year.  Being in an accelerated class is a good way to prepare a student for Advanced Placement (AP) classes in high school, which count as college credit.

High School

1. Find out when the PSAT and SAT exams will take place.  If your student is not a good test taker, consider enrolling them in a test prep class.  As colleges become more and more competitive, test scores make a difference.  In some cases they can take the exam more than once if they are not happy with the score, so plan ahead and register early.

2. Keep up with your student’s school and social schedule.  There is a tremendous amount of freedom in high school and even the most academically gifted students can be distracted by all of the things that are associated with the teenage years.  Establish a curfew for school nights and limit the amount of time that is spent at a part-time job or in sports, especially if your child is seriously challenged when it pertains to time management and study skills.  

3. If your son or daughter is college-bound, start doing your research and be sure to attend the "college nights" that many high schools sponsor.  Know what is expected on college applications.  It is no longer a simple process like it was for the baby boomer generation.   Test scores, a formal essay, volunteer hours, and class selection in high school are all important factors in getting into college.  Take advantage of the many companies that exist today solely for the purpose of assisting you and your student select the right college for them.

Always stay involved in your child’s education.  Volunteering on any level, whether it be reading stories to your elementary school-aged child’s second grade class, helping in the computer lab in middle school, or being on a committee for peer counseling in high school, it is important to know what is happening at the place your children spend a large part of their week.  With so many parents working, many Parent Teacher Associations have their meetings in the evening, so more parents can attend.  There are activities that need volunteers that do not involve daytime hours such as calling parents in the evening for a fundraiser or helping with a weekend car wash at high school.

These back to school tips can help your children the right way and prepare them for a year of learning and fun.